Posting hari ini, adalah berkaitan dgn kategori wanita :)
Need to be remind here, ini adalah kajian aku sendiri berdasarkn opinion rakan2 dan experience aku sndiri.. so, accept for u, to accept or reject the info..
ada 3 kategori wanita di mata lelaki..
Hot.
Comel.
Cantik.
Hot
okei.. biasa dgr nie? mesti lah biasa dgr kan.. nie 1st kategori yg selalu jadi pujaan ramai lelaki.
kena faham d sni, hot nie tidak sama definasinya dr seorg lelaki dgn lelaki yg lain.
ada yg rasa, awek rambut panjang hot..
ada yg rasa, awek rambut pendek hot..
ada yg rasa, awek rambut curly hot..
and the list goes on..
hot tidak tertakluk dgn rupa sahaja, it also include fizikal and appearance of the lady.
i mean.. kalo gurl yg dress up sexy ( muka ala barbie doll + pakai tight jeans and shirt )
thats hot =.="
ya.. i use to hear that a lot.
bila d tgk dari explanation nie, selalu org fikir nie lah wanita idaman lelaki rite?
yep. mmg nie lah wanita idaman lelaki..
tp, jarang lah yg aku jumpa lelaki mo serius relationship dgn dorg..
( kpd wanita2 hot, dun mad at me. like i said, this is based upon my exp and research )
bukan lah semua wanita hot xda lelaki mo serious dgn dorg tp rare.. kebanyakan yg aku jumpa, selalu mo take advantage ja atas ppuan tue, i mean the jerk ex bf will said " hey, that gurls? she was mine before"
so, dgn bangga nya lelaki nie mendabik dada bole cakap dia ada awek hot.. still xmo pon kawin dgn ppuan tue. why? sbb dia rasa ppuan mcm ni x bole di buat bini, buat gurau senda ok la.. untuk jaga dia masa dia tua, untuk jadi priority dia. tidak sesuai..
so, gurls yg kurang 'hot' jgn la rasa kamu kurang dr gadis2 'hot' okei..
Comel
wahhh!! comelnya!
hehe. nie ayat yg akan keluar dr mulut guys bila dia nmpk gurls yg sgt comel
and yes, definasi comel utk guys adalah berbeza.. yalah, taste masing2 manalh sama kn..
anyway, typical comel yg ak selalu dgr bila awek tue ada
this criteria :
personality yg peramah.
suara mcm ala2 kitten gtu.
manja.
mata, mcm ala2 kucing shrek.
kecik saiz orgnya.
the list goes on. anyway, thats the normal standard lelaki akan letak gurls cute tue mcm mana.
so, gadis2 comel nie selalunya akan jd idaman ramai jg. seriously, compare gadis hot dgn gadis comel. gadis comel nie lg ramai org approach..
i mean, lelaki lg comfortable and yakin dgn perempuan type comel nie compare dgn yg hot. sbb?
sbb lelaki selalunya tidak yakin utk mendapatkn awek hot. mostly, rendah diri.. ( rasa dia x layak utk hot gurls, hot gurls x pandang la, hot gurls mahu bf hot la )
sbb tu dorg rasa, dorg ada chance bila mengurat awek2 comel.
anyway, that's why in reality guys akan cenderung pegi gurls2 yg comel nie.
reality not include FB k.
kalo setakat mengurat d FB, semua lelaki pon bole mengurat awek hot =.="
Cantik
ok.. selalunya ni gurls yg dress up simple2 pun still org cakap cantik.
cantik nie actually susah utk di explain, i mean ini lah part yg d mana betul2 taste setiap org determine cantik tue mcm mana.
ada yg rasa awek muka ala2 chinese tu cantik, ada yg rasa awek ala2 arab tue cantik, ada yg rasa awek ala2 euro version tu cantik.. oh my, the list goes on.
anyway, what important is.. kalo guys da rasa perempuan tue cantik, most of them akan serious and mahu comitted dgn wanita2 "cantik" mereka nie..
what important is, everyone has their own defination of cantik. so, gurls di luar sana yg risau dorg x cukup cantik or whatsoever.. don't be okei.
xda yg perlu di risaukn. there's a guy out there waiting for u, talking about how beautiful u are to him :)
so, kalau ada guys yg cakap u are pretty eventhough u think u are not. ingatlah, lelaki tue mest ada crush2 sket dgn anda =P
( ok, that's one trick to understand either the guy mahu mengurat anda atau x )
Anyway, which one are u?
the hot one?
the Comel one?
or the Cantik one?
whatever category u fall into, just remember.. be urself, and always appreciate urself for who u are :)
jgn lah berubah untuk jadi yg cantik untuk lelaki idaman anda, sbb bila dia jumpa yg lebih cantik.. dia akan pergi meninggalkn anda..
berubah lah untuk mencari keredhaan Allah, mencari cinta hakiki yg di mana dia pasti akan pertemukan kita dgn pasangan yg akan menghargai kita, melihat kecantikan kita bukan dr sudut nafsu syahwat semata2, tp dari sudut akal dan hatinya :)
which one u prefer to choose? love for the sake of Allah.. or love for the sake of ur lust?
i leave the answer for u to answer..
Everyday is a new day, and it's a present.
don't waste every moment thinking about something we can't change, appreciate urself, be grateful, insyaAllah.. u will find there's a lot of beautiful things in urself that u just never realize :)